Parental Adaptation

§ April 25th, 2015 § Filed under general § Tagged Comments Off on Parental Adaptation

What happens with some parents today want to live in a world where things have changed too, have not adapted to the series of changes in culture and customs of society, we can not live in a world so liberal with so monotonous and closed. Most parents today face a crisis of adaptation ing fashions, cultures and customs that lead to internal conflicts develop between father and children. This causes many problems that lead to others, poor communication, lack of confidence, family discord among many other things. Today’s teens can not live in a way yesterday, are other ideas and ways of thinking different, there are limits and rules, but for a meaningful social progress and growth is needed to evolve. Evolve mindset of parents and adapt to the changes affecting society continuously.

That is what really happens is fear and fear that parents feel, or simply do not allow teenagers live up to its time, it seemed that everything was like a puzzle and sometimes the parents do not fit the current times. How heavy are my parents! That if the examination, that if I’m late, that if the clothes … Next year will be an adult and I will not have to rely on my parents, or so I believe … Is it necessary to reach these ends? What is the purpose of this article, my intention is not to change the mindset of parents, much less forced to leave “free” their children, my only goal is the reflection between them. We must also note that parents are fully located in the polar opposite of the situation, parents who completely forget their children, parents who do not make rules, parents just do not care situations with their children. I think parents are committed to listening to children, to address their concerns and taking into account their views and way of looking at things, so that there is more armonial coexistence between them, it is necessary to improve communication , poor self-esteem and identity problems, also know their friends to live with, for prevent addiction, scolding and punishment will never be the solution since these are applied after having committed some action, if parents talk amicably with their children would have less problems in addition to drugs, alcohol and tobacco. Should this bond of trust between parents and children, and it would inspire the children think of first instance ask for advice on any issue in which you live, remember that adolescents are called so, because the word comes from They suffer from PAIN, ME DUELE, suffering, and all these CARESCO psychological crisis for which every human being ever goes through.

Comments are closed.