As children get older need to develop in him the desire to do good to people. Compassion in the understanding of children – this generosity, a willingness to share everything. It is reasonable to enter those parents who encourage this desire. When parents inspire your child need to take care of those who need it, help the person experiencing the pain or grief, we can safely say that the child will grow up caring, understand the pain and grief of others. But how to help child to form the qualities? Some believe that it does not require any special techniques and methods, often just need to demonstrate positive character traits. For example, parents, seeing as one kid hurts another, must necessarily stop the offender, explaining that to do so is impossible, that the quarrel will not help solving the problem.
Parents wishing to raise a child's ability to experience the pain of others as his own, should assist those who need it, just describing their feelings and experiences, to justify humanitarian actions and penalties, to teach children to take responsibility when the situation requires it, to establish socially acceptable norms of behavior at home and on the street, painstakingly explaining their meaning. Such education is necessary if the kids are first becoming aware of their separateness from others, unlike its pain from a stranger, when they either take care of people, or selfishly pass others suffering. Studies show that children who can take care of the other two and a half years, showing that quality in seven years.